My Fmaily

My Fmaily
Sean and I are waited for the day to be a Family of 3

Tuesday, July 29, 2014

Looking for a Baby seem to be a Full time Job



I feeling like  Adoption can be a full time job. And I’m always wondering what else I can do to get the word out that we want to adopt. I have wrote over 65 letters too, Lawyers, Doctor, women Shelters all asking to pass on our info. We got an e-mail for one Lawyer in Kennewick saying that they only deal with adopted parent and not Expectant Mothers so they would not have anyone  come to them. They told me I should talk to a lawyer in Seattle who happen to be the lawyer we have right now and he is in Edmonds. Another Lawyer in Spokane told me to talk to a different lawyer that I had already wrote too. One Shelter in OR told me to talk to Bethany Christian Adoption Services witch form what I have heard Bethany is one of the most expensive agency out there and the longest wait. Another Shelter in OR wrote us and told us to talk to a pregnancy center in OR. I decide to wrote to them today. I have been told by two pregnancy center in Washington that they only deal with Agency but I thought that maybe in a different state it could be different, who know what it would lead to and it only cost us a stamp.
I'm the type of person that has a hard time with the unknow. I often wonder if anyone that is considering have been seen our profile, blog page, Flier or Facebook page.
I've tried posting on Craigslist saying we are looking to
adopt. And So far my add has been flagged and deleted from Seattle Snohomish County, Yakima, Tri City, and Spokane and last Portland. There nothing illegal in what we are doing so not sure why they are getting flagged. This what the post says

Hello, we are Sean and Barbara, a childless couple looking to adopt for the first time. We have been married for 7 years and are unable to have children of our own. We are looking to adopt a new born child. Sex and race does not matter to us, only that the child is healthy. Sean is a teacher and coach, while Barbara runs a successful home daycare. We live in Central Washington. Please call or text us at any time, day or night at 509.391.5710. You may also e-mail us at s.b.adoption.story@gmail.com. We also have a blog you may visit at www.sbadoptionstory.blogspot.com/. Please consider us as you come to a decision that is right for you and your child. God Bless.
We have our Home Study done and we have an attorney that deal with Private Domestic Adoption
please not that any Potential Birth Parent will be directed to our attorney.
It just make we wonder why my add have been flagged

Tuesday, June 17, 2014

Lawyer

So last week our profile book that that I order from Shutterfly came and our awesome neighbor mailed it to our Lawyer for us. I should of  had just order it to go straight to our lawyer but I want to put the birth mom letter in the book and write a note. I got a e-mail from our lawyer saying he got the profile book. Then asked where we were on advertising and networking efforts. This  is the first time that he asked us about advertising. It was nice of him to let us know he got the book and asked where at because I just been getting the feeling that with working with lawyer that many people know that we want to adopted  as if we were working  with agency.  However agency just seem so over priced it seem like it would be worth it do the advertising ourselves I just have to keep telling myself that our baby out there we just have not found them yet and most likely they have not even been conceive yet. 

Saturday, June 7, 2014

What the best way

I'm working on the best way to get the word out that Sean and I want to adopted. We have been told about sight like parentprofiles.com or adoptimist.com both  cost a lot every month. It just make you wonder if it is all worth it.  Part of me thinks  that is  a lot off money to put in to something that may not pay out then there the other part that is like if I don't do it I won't get a baby. So the  big question is what  is the best way to find the baby that is meant to be ours.
Then there the other side of me that not willing to 100% hard core on the search for our baby until we are 100% done with embryo adoption. 

Thursday, June 5, 2014

Facebook

We have just started a Facebook page. For our adoption journey so that people can learn more about us. 
With a lot more pictures please check it out https://www.facebook.com/pages/Looking-to-Adopt-Sean-And-Barbara/1476180399266649

The Start

I will write more later but just thought I would blog why I started this blog page. I know that we have a adoption blog page but I want to keep the info on there to be stuff that we would like a  Expected mom to see. Like fundraising up dates and so on not so much is not the best place to share those blogs and so on. This blog page is to keep everyone more updated more on the personal side. Like I feel supper blessed that people that I have not talk to since high school is giving us great support. also to share the feeling I have on everything.